Moments aren't meant to be directed. You don't need to be told where to put on your shoes, how someone else's tradition dictates who helps you in your dress, or how you should react to your story unfolding.
It's not just about moments though, but documenting authentic moments that are as diverse as the wedding stories I document. They're shy, emotional, chaotic, calm, a little buzzed, and definitely worth remembering.
Your story will be filled with the people and memories that make YOU unique-- and there is no reason to fake that!